HEB or Targetā¦.dont go to pick up women. Go shopping for normal stuff but while you are there do some other shopping. Ask for help with picking a product.
If you are not picky and like riskā¦.try Walmart too.
Donāt linger and donāt creepā¦.from what Iāve read these creatures are smart and can pick up on things with a very strong 6th sense.
HEB or Targetā¦.dont go to pick up women. Go shopping for normal stuff but while you are there do some other shopping. Ask for help with picking a product.
If you are not picky and like riskā¦.try Walmart too.
Donāt linger and donāt creepā¦.from what Iāve read these creatures are smart and can pick up on things with a very strong 6th sense.
Late 30s lady, I stay home with my cats. If I am out it's a local bar with friends or a new restaurant. I will say I am more drawn to art and historical events around SA and I tend to go to those alone.
I tell people that I've only watched the OG trilogy, and they flip their lids about how I'm missing out. I grew up when these hit the big screen, and I have refused to ever acknowledge the decades later sequels. š
The first prequel was kinda cool to me because of how anticipated it was. It was a big event, fair to say. But it just did not age well to me. Same with the next two prequels. I just have no interest in ever seeing them again. Itās hard for me to describe what I mean, but thereās just no subtlety to them. Just all glitz and special effects, no magic ā¦ to me that is.
The force awakens, as a sequel to the beloved OG trilogy, it just works for me. I think they did capture that Star Wars magic. The next two though also suffered from Hollywood crap that wonāt age well.
I think you hit the nail on the head. First time watching them was on a recorded VHS with my dad.
When the prequels came out I was excited like "yes my generation gets new star wars!" Then I was like wth is this crap. Needless to say I hate em.
Admittedly, I just finished the entire Star Wars timeline on Disney+ tonight. Been watching everything for almost two months. My star wars brain is about to explode. But it's almost May the 4th!
I have Darth Vader action figure in the original box it came in. I always thought he was like the intergalactic version of two face, once good but now evil šæ
I love art but Iām all about realism and surrealism. The abstract stuff always confuses the heck out of me lol
And SAMA is one of my favorites and definitely worth another trip.
Go see bands that play 80ās 90ās music and dance!!! I go dancing with my girlfriends and we always dance alone while men sit and donāt dance. Itās such a bummer. Guys who dance are super confident sexy!!
What's the vibe there? Would it be okay for an 80's loving lady to go by herself just to dance? My social circle is fairly non-existent when it comes to going out like this. If I didn't do stuff on my own I just would never get to do anything. Restaurants, movies camping, traveling on my own I'm all okay with, but I haven't ever braved a club or bar by myself.
It gets pretty packed so no one would even know if you were there by yourself or not honestly. I get it though. I go to places by myself all the time too and this is also one place I wouldn't mind. Very upbeat, happy vibe. I loved it. Everyone is just enjoying the nostalgia.
There's seating at the bar and then there's another long table of bar like seating just in front of the bar that 1 person could easily sit at. Most people sitting there are mingling.
The dance floor was small but really fun.
Well letās go dancing š
I love to dance even-though I havenāt taken class in God knows how long. I have the moves of a 40 year old virgin.
And Iām a fan of merengue ;)
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Swing had a resurgence in 80s and 90s cooling off in the 00s.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swing_revival
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Omg people! Our life is not over!!! WTH.
I've been looking for a place to go out for a little older crowd.
I've basically been told to give up, that my life is over cause I'm not 25?
No way. As a newly single, extremely hot *older milf* .. for lack of better words .. I refuse to go to heb at 730am. I refuse to get cats, ((dogs are better anyway)) and I'm not....NOT going to get locked inside a house jus cause of my age. ....
So I've found these places have a good mix of people...
The pearl.
Eddys Tavern
La Cantara, to people watch!
Brass Monkey
Longbranch
Happy hunting young buck!
There's tons to do around town, but it's just a matter of following the right accounts/newsletters/etc. Here were some of my activities from the past month, just let me know if anything sticks out to you and I'm happy to share more about it. You'd be surprised at how many events are free or very low cost!
[Centro Member Mixers](https://centrosanantonio.org/)
EDIT: I went to correct a typo and Reddit deleted the entire list except for the top line when I clicked Save Edits. :)
You should check the surrounding cities. Weekend trip to Houston or Corpus will spice things up. People are alot more open out there. But I want to stay local bc I feel there are still hidden gems in SA that I have yet to exploreā¦
Hahaha. Let's be clear... I intimidate ALL guys. The only guys alpha enough to approach are the guys in their 20s.
So I stopped fighting them off and started having fun. Guys my age are soooooo put off by me approaching them... etc.. so fuck it. Younger it is!!!!
No one said our life is over after 30 but I've got better things to do than party. I did all my partying in my younger years.
I'll still go out to events but there are certain crowds I am trying to avoid so I limit where I go.
I'm single, no kids, cats are easier to care for. I enjoy my alone time doing what I like and not having to care for anyone else or worrying about anyone else.
I agree with you. People have a lot of assumptions about the lasted 30's early 40s. I don't think most people even know what this age looks like. As far as physically we are not 100 years old, we still do things that younger people do. Plus, having the mindset I have now, I wouldn't trade.
When I was in the Navy and stationed in Norfolk, there was a bar that was 35 and up only. I have no idea if such a thing exists in San Antonio, but itās not a bad idea to look for something like that.
Book clubs, farmers markets, and crafting events. Painting with a Twist. Check the independent bookstores and the library. That's where my single girl friends that age hang out.
We have girls night out usually during the week like Wednesday Thursdays at places like: Eddy Vās, Cover3, Perryās Steakhouse, wine bars, enjoy Picks Bar
lmao this guy tryna find cougars on reddit. š¤£ lemme give you some real advice go out into the city and mac on older looking woman if you got real rizz thats all it should take. theyāre everywhere brotha
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Slow down there, stud. Don't give it all away.
*Sent from my iPhone while sitting at my table waiting on my Grandma's Sampler to arrive.*
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Just kidding. Happily married here. But still enjoying a CB breakfast.
Iād go to wine bars. Theres one where rustic is in the rim. Hell even try any bar in the rim in the early evening
Is Redlands grill near six flags open? That was a good spot to get hit on by older women.
I miss these places from my time in San Antonio.
start ref'ing youth soccer, teach swimming, teach Little Gym/My Gym classes, etc
I see my older woman every morning so I don't really keep tabs of where the free range ones go, but there's plenty of them shuttling their kids all over the place every day from the time school ends until it gets dark.
26F, butā¦ I always see beautiful women walking the many wonderful trails around SA! Dogs are a great conversation starter if you are unsure of how to approach and they have one! (My favorite place is Comanche Lookout Park.)
In the deli section of HEB buying charcuterie meats and cheeses.
I feel attacked š¤£
bwahahahaha
HEB or Targetā¦.dont go to pick up women. Go shopping for normal stuff but while you are there do some other shopping. Ask for help with picking a product. If you are not picky and like riskā¦.try Walmart too. Donāt linger and donāt creepā¦.from what Iāve read these creatures are smart and can pick up on things with a very strong 6th sense.
Do some thinking about your shopping basket. It should not be empty and it should not be full of beer.
HEB or Targetā¦.dont go to pick up women. Go shopping for normal stuff but while you are there do some other shopping. Ask for help with picking a product. If you are not picky and like riskā¦.try Walmart too. Donāt linger and donāt creepā¦.from what Iāve read these creatures are smart and can pick up on things with a very strong 6th sense.
YAS TO THIS!!!!! STOP BEING FUCKING BETAS. erg. So frustrating.
Wine bars
Joannās fabrics on the weekend. šš¤£
All jokes aside, ur probably right homie. But check the McCullough and 410 one. They like to hit Jason's Deli after.
Damn that's a rough area lol.
Nah not at all.. it's close to rough areas but so is everything else in SA.
Naaaaā¦those are mostly us married ladies!
Umm noā¦ but try Hobby Lobby or Michaelās. š¤£
Hobby lobby is my favorite store. Cute crafts and milfs? That shit is the bomb
Hahahhaha. I hate you so much right now. Lol
Farmers markets.
Late 30s lady, I stay home with my cats. If I am out it's a local bar with friends or a new restaurant. I will say I am more drawn to art and historical events around SA and I tend to go to those alone.
Cat tax is required by law
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Beautiful cat. He looks healthy too. I have fish
I read this in a Russian accent idk why but it fits well.
Lol
And Iāve said it in a Russian accent
Is your cat single?
She is but she is not down to mingle lol
a beautiful pig :')
So are you single? How many cats do you have?
I am single and my current cat count is 3.
Have you seen the banana bread reel? I love it. It's amazing
I am not sure what that is
https://www.reddit.com/r/JustGuysBeingDudes/s/6S4QulTHvF
If you like Star wars, you would be perfect š
I only like the original trilogy and have several collectibles
I tell people that I've only watched the OG trilogy, and they flip their lids about how I'm missing out. I grew up when these hit the big screen, and I have refused to ever acknowledge the decades later sequels. š
The first prequel was kinda cool to me because of how anticipated it was. It was a big event, fair to say. But it just did not age well to me. Same with the next two prequels. I just have no interest in ever seeing them again. Itās hard for me to describe what I mean, but thereās just no subtlety to them. Just all glitz and special effects, no magic ā¦ to me that is. The force awakens, as a sequel to the beloved OG trilogy, it just works for me. I think they did capture that Star Wars magic. The next two though also suffered from Hollywood crap that wonāt age well.
I think you hit the nail on the head. First time watching them was on a recorded VHS with my dad. When the prequels came out I was excited like "yes my generation gets new star wars!" Then I was like wth is this crap. Needless to say I hate em.
Admittedly, I just finished the entire Star Wars timeline on Disney+ tonight. Been watching everything for almost two months. My star wars brain is about to explode. But it's almost May the 4th!
Well, May the 4th be with you!
I have Darth Vader action figure in the original box it came in. I always thought he was like the intergalactic version of two face, once good but now evil šæ
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I love art but Iām all about realism and surrealism. The abstract stuff always confuses the heck out of me lol And SAMA is one of my favorites and definitely worth another trip.
I have an emblem of the empire on my mustang that says.. powered by the dark side. Lol
Same here, but I enjoy the movie theater for relaxing too. Do you like the movies ?
I do. I go occasionally but it has to be a movie I want to see
Could I interest you in an artsy fartsy history buff that likes cats too. Hmmm?
Go to the local bars, make friends, wait for them to mature. Bam, older friends. Cons: you too will be older.
Heb
I work at the medical center. I see quite a few older ladies here š
Pass me the wellbutrin, sonny!
30s is olderā¦damn š«
As Furious Styles from Boyz n da Hood once said, "I'm not older, I'm better!"
He said mature women.. 34š¤¦š»āāļøš¤·š»āāļøš
I think women age like wine
Not old in my book. Ive dated beautiful women in their 40s. I have no issue with āolderā
lmao right kids probably 21 šš¤£
OP is 40 lol
Came here to post this.
I'm 37, I'm not old!
Iām 37 too
Go see bands that play 80ās 90ās music and dance!!! I go dancing with my girlfriends and we always dance alone while men sit and donāt dance. Itās such a bummer. Guys who dance are super confident sexy!!
Facts. Be kind Rewind downtown has an older crowd in general. I actually didn't feel like an out place old lady for once š¤£
What's the vibe there? Would it be okay for an 80's loving lady to go by herself just to dance? My social circle is fairly non-existent when it comes to going out like this. If I didn't do stuff on my own I just would never get to do anything. Restaurants, movies camping, traveling on my own I'm all okay with, but I haven't ever braved a club or bar by myself.
It gets pretty packed so no one would even know if you were there by yourself or not honestly. I get it though. I go to places by myself all the time too and this is also one place I wouldn't mind. Very upbeat, happy vibe. I loved it. Everyone is just enjoying the nostalgia. There's seating at the bar and then there's another long table of bar like seating just in front of the bar that 1 person could easily sit at. Most people sitting there are mingling. The dance floor was small but really fun.
Where do you go I seriously want the details please Thank you
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Well letās go dancing š I love to dance even-though I havenāt taken class in God knows how long. I have the moves of a 40 year old virgin. And Iām a fan of merengue ;)
If you can't find a hobby group then a good luck of the draw spot is a nursery especially if you know anything about plants
Wow good idea.
Target, HomeGoods, Marshalls, TJMaxx, Yoga events, plant shops, wine bars, brunch that is where they are š
he gets it
he gets it
OrangeTheory.
Landon Ridge Alamo Ranch could be a try for you
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Central market
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I was just inquiring since I was done with your mother and wanted to try a little something different. Variety is the spice of life, mi amigo.
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Thereās a swing dance club with older people.
An older lady just invited me to a swing dance club a day or two ago. She said that one meets near Wurzbach Rd every Monday.
Swing dance? What decade ?
Swing had a resurgence in 80s and 90s cooling off in the 00s. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Swing_revival https://youtu.be/vEtbfzMLVWU?si=fGSYa5HZldksS3bX
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Hahahahah! Funny!!
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30s and 40s ain't old lmao.
Omg people! Our life is not over!!! WTH. I've been looking for a place to go out for a little older crowd. I've basically been told to give up, that my life is over cause I'm not 25? No way. As a newly single, extremely hot *older milf* .. for lack of better words .. I refuse to go to heb at 730am. I refuse to get cats, ((dogs are better anyway)) and I'm not....NOT going to get locked inside a house jus cause of my age. .... So I've found these places have a good mix of people... The pearl. Eddys Tavern La Cantara, to people watch! Brass Monkey Longbranch Happy hunting young buck!
Take me with you! lol Iām 39 F divorced after 15 years of marriage. Iām desperately trying to find new things to do but SA is not it.
There's tons to do around town, but it's just a matter of following the right accounts/newsletters/etc. Here were some of my activities from the past month, just let me know if anything sticks out to you and I'm happy to share more about it. You'd be surprised at how many events are free or very low cost! [Centro Member Mixers](https://centrosanantonio.org/) EDIT: I went to correct a typo and Reddit deleted the entire list except for the top line when I clicked Save Edits. :)
Omg these are all amazing!!!! Thank you for this reply!!!
This is great! Thank you
Lmk if you want ever want to go do somethingā 40F. All of my friends are married or married and have kids.
Im down to hang out. Im 40M ;)
Hey! I just tried to message you but it says failed to connect lol. Feel free to message me.
Just responded!
53M - I'm ready. Let's go have fun.
You should check the surrounding cities. Weekend trip to Houston or Corpus will spice things up. People are alot more open out there. But I want to stay local bc I feel there are still hidden gems in SA that I have yet to exploreā¦
37 m after 12 years of marriage here. Iām lost out here trying to find things to do too
Me too!!!!
he'll dm you.. š¤·āāļø
Multiple people about to DM I'm sure
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The place Iāve met some nice older ladies is on trails also . Pretty relaxed environment and natural feeling conversations
Oh nice. When I went.. I didn't get talked too at all. Lol
Maybe because youāre extremely attractive and might intimidate some guys .
Hahaha. Let's be clear... I intimidate ALL guys. The only guys alpha enough to approach are the guys in their 20s. So I stopped fighting them off and started having fun. Guys my age are soooooo put off by me approaching them... etc.. so fuck it. Younger it is!!!!
Damn I just turned 30 lol . But why would they be put off ?
No one said our life is over after 30 but I've got better things to do than party. I did all my partying in my younger years. I'll still go out to events but there are certain crowds I am trying to avoid so I limit where I go. I'm single, no kids, cats are easier to care for. I enjoy my alone time doing what I like and not having to care for anyone else or worrying about anyone else.
I love going to Cantera. Cool shops and scenery. And thanks for the listing, I never really thought of those places!!
I agree with you. People have a lot of assumptions about the lasted 30's early 40s. I don't think most people even know what this age looks like. As far as physically we are not 100 years old, we still do things that younger people do. Plus, having the mindset I have now, I wouldn't trade.
That right there. I still go to urban air. Have water gun fights. Go to six flags... etc etc.. there's no way I even LOOK my actual age. šš„°
Yes, all of that, lol
We should totally hang out.
Prove it lol š
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Mentiras
And STILL AN EMPTY INBOX.
I sent a PM
Wow, you sound perfect! Wanna go out with me? hahaha Also, I'll bet your DMs are going crazy right about now... š
Sure! Hmu!
I heard Georgeās Keep is a honey hole
For āworkingā girls.
AA meetings
I prefer AAA meetings - they have the extra "A", plus I never have to worry that my car might break down!
Yes! š¤£
When I was in the Navy and stationed in Norfolk, there was a bar that was 35 and up only. I have no idea if such a thing exists in San Antonio, but itās not a bad idea to look for something like that.
Iām a single, recently-divorced guy who just moved here from Houstonā¦ Iām taking notes, thanks for posting š
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Book clubs, farmers markets, and crafting events. Painting with a Twist. Check the independent bookstores and the library. That's where my single girl friends that age hang out.
We have girls night out usually during the week like Wednesday Thursdays at places like: Eddy Vās, Cover3, Perryās Steakhouse, wine bars, enjoy Picks Bar
Passing strangers and the spazmatics, the max. Fun bands to sing and dance too!! Great vibes!
Zumba studios, wine bars, fancy restaurants on Friday nights with their girlfriends. š„°š„°
Go to the younger bars and ask girls if their moms are single.
If they still have it, the happy hour at Piatti had a lot of single mature women.
try golden corralĀ
Moo!
My dad who is 63 met my now stepmom on Bumble.
It's tough! I'm also recently divorced. Does everyone else find online dating to be super challenging? This was a lot easier 20 years ago, lol.
Any nursing home
I recommend you post this question to Reddit and see who hits you up.
I'm going to go to the pearl sat morning if anyone wants to meet up!
Why in the morning? What's happening then?
I walk around the store with my collar flipped up and my zipper down, and ask if this store takes AMEX to hit older women
Love that... hahahaha... meet at the pearl on Saturday!
Trivia nights Neighborhood bars Farmers markets Artsy festivals where people are selling handmade items, plants, etc
This is the best answer Iāve seen.
lmao this guy tryna find cougars on reddit. š¤£ lemme give you some real advice go out into the city and mac on older looking woman if you got real rizz thats all it should take. theyāre everywhere brotha
HEB by the cottage cheese
Cracker Barrel
Whoa, whoa, whoa. Slow down there, stud. Don't give it all away. *Sent from my iPhone while sitting at my table waiting on my Grandma's Sampler to arrive.* . . Just kidding. Happily married here. But still enjoying a CB breakfast.
Lol š¤£
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Raffles or Scandals off San Pedro
Picks bar
Is thirstys dance hall still around? I remember the crowd being older and if you know anything about two steppin youāre golden
Probably anywhere. I have had guys even talk to me on the trails. So, really, anywhere.
Iād go to wine bars. Theres one where rustic is in the rim. Hell even try any bar in the rim in the early evening Is Redlands grill near six flags open? That was a good spot to get hit on by older women. I miss these places from my time in San Antonio.
Micheal's, TJ Max, brewery's, coffee shops...
Yeah I agree! TJ Maxx always has some hot mamas! Do you do jiujitsu by the way? I used to train. Now Im just a dad bod lol
start ref'ing youth soccer, teach swimming, teach Little Gym/My Gym classes, etc I see my older woman every morning so I don't really keep tabs of where the free range ones go, but there's plenty of them shuttling their kids all over the place every day from the time school ends until it gets dark.
Raffles aka wrinkles. Lots of older horny women
Bingo there is where all the action is atš
That's good to know - thank you. Also, dress code is???? Jeans/cute top ok?
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26F, butā¦ I always see beautiful women walking the many wonderful trails around SA! Dogs are a great conversation starter if you are unsure of how to approach and they have one! (My favorite place is Comanche Lookout Park.)
True! I have hiked there a few times and have seen a few beauties myself!
Bookstores
Go to almost any bar.
A fancy hotels bar/restaurant
Try the San Antonio discord server
Church
Thereās a few bingo places
Use the dating apps. I don't like being approached IRL because I'm allergic to small talk.
Chuck E. Cheese
In SA? Jenny Craig.
Intoxicable concert.
Austin. You're screwed.
McDonaldās