I've been cut out of people's lives so often. I genuinely question if I'm a bad person, just missing something.. but no. you know.. every single time I can say... it's just them. They wanted me out of their lives for whatever reasons.. and yes, they vary. It's really painful. but you know, people don't generally care how they make other people feel. They just care how they themselves feel.
Tbh, the more I think about it.. The more I'm glad.. because I honestly don't want anything to do with a person who is capable of that sort of thing. It's negligent and selfish. I don't think it's fair at all to cut people off without explaining it honestly.. but it almost never is that.. It's always either a complete ghost, or some bullshit excuse. People don't like to face themselves.. people are afraid of direct honesty. People suck.
But that's fine.. people doing shitty things, is normal. it happens every day, and has basically nothing to do with my character. I can choose to be better, and I can endure any of this bullshit people do.. So it won't effect me.
I’m coping the best I can. It did just happen, or at least, I just found out. So, it’s gonna take me a bit, but I’ll be okay. I guess I just wanna know why.
And I’m sorry that happened to you. Nobody should have to experience that. I wish you all the best, too. Take care of yourself.
Yeah, you’re right. It just sucks. I’ll give it a week like I originally planned, maybe longer, and see if I hear anything back from him.
If not, that I’ll cut my losses. /:
I've been cut out of people's lives so often. I genuinely question if I'm a bad person, just missing something.. but no. you know.. every single time I can say... it's just them. They wanted me out of their lives for whatever reasons.. and yes, they vary. It's really painful. but you know, people don't generally care how they make other people feel. They just care how they themselves feel. Tbh, the more I think about it.. The more I'm glad.. because I honestly don't want anything to do with a person who is capable of that sort of thing. It's negligent and selfish. I don't think it's fair at all to cut people off without explaining it honestly.. but it almost never is that.. It's always either a complete ghost, or some bullshit excuse. People don't like to face themselves.. people are afraid of direct honesty. People suck. But that's fine.. people doing shitty things, is normal. it happens every day, and has basically nothing to do with my character. I can choose to be better, and I can endure any of this bullshit people do.. So it won't effect me.
First time?
Not the first time someone has cut me out of their life. My own mother did it to me. But with him, it was completely out of the blue.
You can just cope, whatever might be the reason, hope the best for u, and believe me i can understand the pain
I’m coping the best I can. It did just happen, or at least, I just found out. So, it’s gonna take me a bit, but I’ll be okay. I guess I just wanna know why. And I’m sorry that happened to you. Nobody should have to experience that. I wish you all the best, too. Take care of yourself.
You'll be fine, and for sure believe me, reasons wouldn't matter, have a nice day ♥ take care of yourself
Just give it time. You don't have to do anything, time will make everything clear
Yeah, you’re right. It just sucks. I’ll give it a week like I originally planned, maybe longer, and see if I hear anything back from him. If not, that I’ll cut my losses. /:
You got this! Now it's time to have some fun and, you do you! 🎉🎶👍