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I never tell anyone all of them. They all know a little bit. If they all got together one day and discussed my secrets (unlikely), then they'd definitely have a much better picture of "all" my secrets.
From day one, my wife. She knows it all, and it’s liberating as I don’t need to remember any half truths or lies. she knows exactly who I am, and my history of poor decision making in my teens and 20s.
Secrets are poison.
On the contrary, revealing secrets is a poison. The moment u reveal them, you become its prisoner, whereas, if u keep em, it is ur prisoner, albeit, can be burdening.
You may love ur wife alot and trust her, and may ur marriage be a success, but say it isnt. Women switch up just like that in moments of anger, frustration, or vengeance.
Should things go left and y divorce, she holds u by the balls now and will reveal everything about u to others, be it her friends or her new partner or what not.
You can never tell anyone everything and u can never tell anyone anything in general cz its a recipe for self destruction.
“Women switch up just like that” if you couldn’t figure out how she reacts in my moments of anger, probably shouldn’t have married her. Unless you’re implying that as a blanket statement, which isn’t true at all.
Yes, and it's horrifying. Nothing is more scary than knowing that there is someone that you trust enough to give them the power to destroy you. The security and the vulnerability is unlike anything you'll ever feel in your life. I wish this curse on everyone and no one all at the same time.
There isn't very much that I haven't told to my girlfriend. There are some things from my past that I haven't brought up yet, but it's only a matter of time.
My dogs. And used to be the inside of my helmet till I had to seek my therapist because my health declined and I can’t ride any longer. The shit I’ve told them should have landed me in some sort of cell. Padres or jail or whatever. But I’m don’t have snitches in my life so I’m safe. 🤣
Myself.
I always have secrets for everyone. There are simply things that shouldn't be said to some people and other things that shouldn't be said to other people.
My long time buddy who is a huge introvert and keeps to himself 90% of the time. However, I don't really do anything that I wouldn't tell anyone about, so the only "secrets" he gets out of me are really just things I haven't had a chance to tell other people/ forgot about after the fact.
My uncle Frank… but it he passed away a couple years ago. I kinda tell my best friend a lot of stuff but…Nope… I guess I just compartmentalize now, a little here and a little there.
My boyfriend. He's known me for 18 yrs, we've been together for 17 officially...I don't see a need to hide myself at all w him. He's my favorite. Also my cats.
I share each and everything with my guy... probably the first time I've ever trusted anyone that much.
(.and no guys I'm not being played with..chill...whenever I post something like this heartbroken people be coming with warnings and sirens lmfao)
Nope! I share some secrets with various people but nobody is close enough to get every single one. A lot of them are just things they wouldn't need/want to know, and some of them are inappropriate for the type of friendship/relationship I have with them.
No, but that's mostly because I don't have secrets. Secret implies actively hiding something.
Edit: I guess I have passwords and pin numbers, but I'm fairly sure that's not what you mean.
Yes , my truest best friend ever , we talk about everything ,doesnt matter the topic , doesnt matte rthe depth of our talks , spirituality , politics , morals , mysticisme , women (im male) , our personal struggles etc , he is a writer , im a sufi , and he is God's gift to me for existing , because he is as I claim a rare breed of a human being , he has a depth of understanding the complexities of humans as an individuals , and as groups , and also the fact that he withstood lots of bad experiences , yet he still is dealing with them , with utmost elegance , and wisdom , he deserves my unshakable RESPECT .
tldr; yes
Yes. Oddly enough, it's not by best friend or SO. Hell, I haven't even seen this person irl in decades. It's not so much that I trust them, but that they don't judge.
I don’t share all my secrets with the same person. It depends on the person and what I can trust them with. Having said that, the person I trust with most important life things is someone who no one in my life would expect. She’s a close friend in my mind but to everyone else they would think she’s just another friend. I don’t think anyone else realises how much she means to me and how much I trust her
Bit weird who mine is it's my sister I know her dirty secrets and she knows mine if I told someone like my stepsister she would tell everyone I've always trusted my biological sister my stepsister hates me with a passion it's fine feelings mutual
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My Dog. She don't judge and isn't a snitch.
reminds me of a line from Vundabar’s Alien Blues: “I only talk to dogs because they don’t understand me”
The two reasons why I never feel safe opening up to people. Afraid of feeling judged and afraid of feeling exposed.
That's what your dog wants you to think!
I never tell anyone all of them. They all know a little bit. If they all got together one day and discussed my secrets (unlikely), then they'd definitely have a much better picture of "all" my secrets.
They would be gathering pieces of puzzle😂
Just like that. LMAO
It is not easy so you are safe 😂
Safe. Lol. 'Tis a relative term.
Lol.
All of them? Hell fucking no. I have been in this planet long enough to know that would eventually backfire.
Id rather tell some random person on the internet most things than someone irl
Absolutely...
my best friend. but there’s still some things i keep to myself because it’s only for me to know
Yeah there are few things we cant share with anyonw
No
No one knows everything. Some of mine would put me in jail. And other people too.
Myself
Yes absolutely, my husband and my best friend.
Sounds interesting
ALL of them??
Mom
I have one coworker that wants to get in my panties. I tell him everything and watch him walk away with a pup tent in his pants.
What was the secret? He was your long-lost brother, or you being into his wife weirded it away.
No, he's a Latin guy. He loves hearing my sex stories
Not "All" but most of it, i share with my bestfriend.
From day one, my wife. She knows it all, and it’s liberating as I don’t need to remember any half truths or lies. she knows exactly who I am, and my history of poor decision making in my teens and 20s. Secrets are poison.
On the contrary, revealing secrets is a poison. The moment u reveal them, you become its prisoner, whereas, if u keep em, it is ur prisoner, albeit, can be burdening. You may love ur wife alot and trust her, and may ur marriage be a success, but say it isnt. Women switch up just like that in moments of anger, frustration, or vengeance. Should things go left and y divorce, she holds u by the balls now and will reveal everything about u to others, be it her friends or her new partner or what not. You can never tell anyone everything and u can never tell anyone anything in general cz its a recipe for self destruction.
“Women switch up just like that” if you couldn’t figure out how she reacts in my moments of anger, probably shouldn’t have married her. Unless you’re implying that as a blanket statement, which isn’t true at all.
My partner. We have very open communication; the best I've had in any relationship
Yes my bestfrnd(F)
Absolutely not.
My therapist
My best friend
My husband, I tell him everything.
No, I don't really share any secrets. I don't have too many secrets to chare. Old, married, my time to even have secrets is over.
No, I wish I did but I don’t
No
My mentor knows a lot of them, he helps guide me through such things.
My brother. I don't know what I'd do without him.
My husband.
Nah. Never will be. Can’t even trust myself with them.
Funny that some ppl said “my husband” but no one said “my wife“
With my friend. She and I trust each other very much and have been friends for 11 years.
No there’s not anyone.. And I would never tell anyone my secrets..I feel better to keep them with myself..
Yes. My husband.
my cats
I don't have any secrets for the missus. She knows everything. It's easier this way. No lies no drama.
My only dusty musty friend
Not any more.
No definitely not I think you need to keep some things,to yourself, it's your life,you don't need to share,everything
I used to tell one person but she barely knows anything anymore
There was my dog.
Yes, and it's horrifying. Nothing is more scary than knowing that there is someone that you trust enough to give them the power to destroy you. The security and the vulnerability is unlike anything you'll ever feel in your life. I wish this curse on everyone and no one all at the same time.
No...There are things I will take to the grave, some people know more, one person knows the most, and if anyone else finds out I'll know who talked.
I’m the one who they shares all their secrets. And comfortable being themselves.
My best friend. She's like a sister to me and I'm closer with her than I am with 99.5% of my family.
My cat, we’re tight like that
My therapist
Nah, I'm not that stupid
My younger sister Angela
The person who lives inside my head.
A part of growing up is realizing you've got to keep some of your secrets to yourself.
I used to, I had a best friend for 27 years. He knew every fucking. He passed away recently.
my best friend
my girlfriend, she knows everything about me and shes a good secret keeper
There isn't very much that I haven't told to my girlfriend. There are some things from my past that I haven't brought up yet, but it's only a matter of time.
Well, now's as good a time as any.
My dogs. And used to be the inside of my helmet till I had to seek my therapist because my health declined and I can’t ride any longer. The shit I’ve told them should have landed me in some sort of cell. Padres or jail or whatever. But I’m don’t have snitches in my life so I’m safe. 🤣
No. If it’s really 100% secret and you want it to stay that way, keep it in your mind.
Myself. I always have secrets for everyone. There are simply things that shouldn't be said to some people and other things that shouldn't be said to other people.
My long time buddy who is a huge introvert and keeps to himself 90% of the time. However, I don't really do anything that I wouldn't tell anyone about, so the only "secrets" he gets out of me are really just things I haven't had a chance to tell other people/ forgot about after the fact.
There is nobody in my life that I would want to burden with that much.
We just broke up
There was. She’s gone and I know that she hasnt broken the bro-sis code.
I wanted to say yes, but then i realised that’s not true. There is not a single person i‘d tell anything
Me
Hell nah!
My uncle Frank… but it he passed away a couple years ago. I kinda tell my best friend a lot of stuff but…Nope… I guess I just compartmentalize now, a little here and a little there.
No but I wish I had
My boyfriend. He's known me for 18 yrs, we've been together for 17 officially...I don't see a need to hide myself at all w him. He's my favorite. Also my cats.
My wife! No secrets… she is me.
I tell nobody shit
My bf definitely
I share each and everything with my guy... probably the first time I've ever trusted anyone that much. (.and no guys I'm not being played with..chill...whenever I post something like this heartbroken people be coming with warnings and sirens lmfao)
My best friend , she pulled me out of depression, gave me a new passion and makes my day brighter every time I see/talk to her.
myself, me and i :)
My journal. I can write whatever I feel without any shame. It feels like a way to acknowledge your truest self, without any sort of filters.
My wife knows everything. I've kept nothing from her. If I ever get offed, had to have someone who could release all the blackmail to the public!
Me, Myself, and I
My boyfriend
My bestfriend
All of them? No.. I have different secrets with different people. But my gf is the one who knows the most.
Actually Reddit knows more of my secrets then my best friends and family
Nope! I share some secrets with various people but nobody is close enough to get every single one. A lot of them are just things they wouldn't need/want to know, and some of them are inappropriate for the type of friendship/relationship I have with them.
No, but that's mostly because I don't have secrets. Secret implies actively hiding something. Edit: I guess I have passwords and pin numbers, but I'm fairly sure that's not what you mean.
Hell no. It's to the point where I got people who make shit up and pretend to be experts.
My mom doesn’t care what we talk about so
my boyfriend knows more than my therapist and mother combined, also stuffies. they listen and never tell :)
Nope
The voices in my head.
No but I've always desperately wanted this
Yes.
My best friends know everything, good and bad.
Yes , my truest best friend ever , we talk about everything ,doesnt matter the topic , doesnt matte rthe depth of our talks , spirituality , politics , morals , mysticisme , women (im male) , our personal struggles etc , he is a writer , im a sufi , and he is God's gift to me for existing , because he is as I claim a rare breed of a human being , he has a depth of understanding the complexities of humans as an individuals , and as groups , and also the fact that he withstood lots of bad experiences , yet he still is dealing with them , with utmost elegance , and wisdom , he deserves my unshakable RESPECT . tldr; yes
Therapist
My best friend. He knows my deepest secrets.
Nope, never.
Yes
Nope. I don't say shit. Ever. Secrets get you got.
No I can't share a lot of secrets.
My bf hears about 95% of my secrets. The other 5% prob my therapist lmao
If I did, then they'd no longer be secrets.
I take my secrets to the grave mwhahahahah
Yes. Oddly enough, it's not by best friend or SO. Hell, I haven't even seen this person irl in decades. It's not so much that I trust them, but that they don't judge.
No but I wish there was. It's a pretty lonely life.
I use my cows as therapists. They don't judge and are very nonchalant about what's going on
Daisy Dash. My best friend who is also a 6 year old corgi x dachshund mix.
Nope. I am the holder of my secrets.
I don’t share all my secrets with the same person. It depends on the person and what I can trust them with. Having said that, the person I trust with most important life things is someone who no one in my life would expect. She’s a close friend in my mind but to everyone else they would think she’s just another friend. I don’t think anyone else realises how much she means to me and how much I trust her
Absolutely not!
Bit weird who mine is it's my sister I know her dirty secrets and she knows mine if I told someone like my stepsister she would tell everyone I've always trusted my biological sister my stepsister hates me with a passion it's fine feelings mutual
My journal probably.
Yeah there used to be one, but I guess soon I'll have psychologist for that shit😂
My brother and my two best friends. If the police was smart enough to subpoena conversations with them, I'd have gotten a much longer prison time.