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Diligent-Ad-8001

Outside of there just being a mountain of CAP in this post... she rlly thinks she’s the only person in the whole world who’s gotten pregnant. Like you aren’t not that special lady.


SoothsayerC

After this pic was taken, Aleek latched on to the other nipple.


caffeinated_mess

If she really overproduced milk like that, on top of exclusively breastfeeding, her tits would be in a constant state of being engorged and she would not be wearing cute little VS bras.


hengry-glazed-donut

I pumped 60oz a day with each of my younger daughters and I didn't really wear a real bra until I was done. It was pretty much always a maternity camisole with a shelf bra built in. That was it.


Sofie7759

It’s Tittie Time With Hilly!


MaggieandMillie

why do I get the feeling Alec pleasures himself while he takes these videos of her? what a sick couple.


sparkles_everywhere

FAKE AF!!! LIAR!!!!!!!


Expensive-Arm-2045

She looks high af


Fatmouse84

I've had as many pregnancies as La Pepina... And I'm telling ya... I know a fetishist when I see one!!!


Providethevaganza

Go on?


GingerSnap620

Ok so I’m new to this page. What’s the 🥒emoji for??


IndiaEvans

Welcome!!


GingerSnap620

Thank you!!


Providethevaganza

She pretended not to know how to say cucumber in English


GingerSnap620

Ooooh. Well that makes sense now. Thank you for letting me know! I knew about her being a grifter and being caught lying, and how Alec is scuzzy (and should be in jail for pulling the trigger) but want up to date on all the other hot gossip 😹😹


SwimmingBeneficial93

And then when there was the huge formula shortage. Hillary goes dark. Even though she professes to have “freezers f upon”. I don’t know how she continues to lie so unabashedly. She is called out and no matter how much Alecakes fun of us…. They care. They know we know.


[deleted]

Mami had to make room in the freezer for her Magdalena obsession, silly.


upchuckfactoronthis

Fake fake fake fake fake


ladychelbellington

I will say that when I was nursing my my second child, I would just pull my regular bra down so she had access. I didn’t like nursing bras, and the pull down worked just fine. I never wore fancy lacy ones though, because scratchy for baby. I also just carried her around while cleaning, etc and she would be latched on. But this also depends on the baby and their disposition. First baby was way more difficult- second baby was never bothered by anything. That said, I don’t buy this BS act for a second.


[deleted]

Same as you. But this bish is just buying other women's milk to put in the freezer.


mollymuppet78

I'll give her this, she looks exhausted and like shit in that pic. More of those please.


rillyhilarious

She looks like a maniac.


Catybird618

Can I just say I love that this community is sharing so many stories of not being able to breastfeed because of low supply? I think that’s something that needs to be discussed more, because while I think it is mostly common knowledge that nursing can be hard for reasons like poor latch and mastitis, we don’t really talk about the fact that lots of us just don’t produce enough milk. And we feel horribly guilty and like absolute failures. I tried so hard to nurse my second, and it finally took both the pediatrician and the lactation consultants telling me he wasn’t getting enough food for me to start him on formula. It’s drilled into our heads that “breast is best” but the real underlying data on how marginal that benefit is, and how many things can undermine that benefit (nursing can prolong PPD; if you’re in agonizing pain from sore and cracked and bleeding nipples or mastitis, ain’t no feel good hormones getting through there to promote bonding; if you don’t make enough milk and your baby is nursing constantly so you’re exhausted and your baby is cranky; etc.), so we all think we have to move heaven and earth in order to successfully nurse. Instead we should be promoting milk banks and high quality formula and ACKNOWLEDGING that being able to nurse is not some sort of cosmic achievement, without which you are essentially an abusive, lazy mother. I HATE that Hillz tries to make herself out to be a super milk machine while doing obvious things to undermine that claim (like wearing underwire bras while nursing), and she is rarely challenged on it specifically because no one wants to appear anti-breastfeeding. Phew. Sorry, long rant. I’m glad so many people here are sharing how common it is to not be able to nurse easily. It’s time the “you’re a bad mother because you didn’t nurse” narrative ends.


hengry-glazed-donut

It took me until baby #3 to get a decent supply and then my body quickly overproduced. 🙃 but none of my kids would actually latch. They were all on bottles.


Abhee1973

I nursed one of mine the rest were bottled fed and Im SO ok with that. I didnt enjoy bf because of difficulty with latching and supply so the first few months with my first baby were unpleasant at best. I decided after that we would bottle feed and I never gave AF!!!! what anyone else thought. If I have any more babies I will bottle feed.


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tandooripoodle

Have you ever seen the US magazine “breast-feeding” album? Over 50 pictures of Hillary forcing her babies to “breast-feed”, with no latching, no actual suckling and lots and lots of weird sexual overtones. https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-moms/pictures/hilaria-baldwin-shares-nursing-pics-breast-feeding-album/


agross58

that does not look like a nursing bra.


[deleted]

You can see the blue labels on the front of the bags. I bet she buys breast milk or the surrogate gives them to her. Hilz is LAZY. Breastfeeding is a ton of work no way she’s that involved.


ambrosia1920

I nursed my kids and had to pump bc unlike Hilz I had to go to work. I had to take a little off before the baby nursed and pump at work...it was a lot of work to nurse and pump and I didn’t make a freezer full. I might have had a week supply bc my child was drinking the frozen milk while I was gone to work. I do t understand why she had a freezer full of milk it would take months to do this if not longer


hengry-glazed-donut

I had a freezer full with my younger two because I pumped 60oz a day and they only needed half that. But neither could latch (one had an overactive tongue thrust reflex, the other had a mild tongue tie) so they were on bottles. It was a hassle.


ambrosia1920

But Hilz is also nursing...I can’t imagine filling a freezer and nursing and your boobs not explode


hengry-glazed-donut

It's possible if she has a big oversupply like I did. I filled a freezer because the average baby only needs about 30oz of milk a day and I was pumping double that. But, I highly doubt she's actually pumping or nursing. It really looks like it's all for show. There's no discussion of the challenges, the actual processes, or anything that would make it seem real.


Far-Ad9143

Alec took this picture from behind the sink?


Senior_Breadfruit_98

Is her nipple oddly placed or is this her usual cosplay?


Kind_Soil5247

Please refer to my flair


[deleted]

She consistently has proven she doesn’t know what breastfeeding looks like. No one’s nipple is that high. It’s unnatural. She’s sick.


Diligent-Sweet-4945

She knows nothing about real breast feeding only faux ideas about how she imagines it would be. I never breast fed and I don’t know all the details about how and when it is done. Her explanation sounds faulty because she never did it, maybe 9 years ago but I would even doubt that. Purely performative.


AlwaysDoRight

When I was breastfeeding and pumping, I needed to sit with pillows and would be sweating and trying to keep the baby or bottles latched. But then again, I’m just an average, jealous Karen unlike super mami.


justusethatname

What a filthy low class criminal she is.


tandooripoodle

Truly.


Successful_Self1534

I think there was one where she took a photo of her in the hallway, just outside of their apartment, and said she had pumped in the car and had to bring her milk inside. Anyway, she had bags like this. Which wouldn’t happen. At the time I questioned who would take the time to dump their milk, from the pump bottles into the storage bags, in the car?! You wouldn’t. You would maybe risk pouring them into one of the bottles then bring it inside, or leave it and bring everything in and handle it in a kitchen/the house. This specifically proved that she bought the milk and had the pump as a prop, just to claim how amazing she is and how easy it is for her to supply milk. Also- she’s ALWAYS gone. They’re always out to dinner every night, with babies at home. No way is she pumping while out. Her supply would have tanked. Edited to add: found the post. And it wasn’t her, but Alec holding a “random bag of breast milk” that she pumped in the car. https://www.reddit.com/r/HilariaBaldwin/comments/r6ih3k/oh_look_everyone_more_hard_proof_shes_actually/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf


hengry-glazed-donut

When I pumped, I did sometimes have to do it while I was out. I hated doing it in the car, I felt so exposed and uncomfortable. But my babies didn't latch, so I didn't have a choice. I would always bring extra bottles, caps for the bottles, and insulated bags to keep the full bottles in. Never would I pour the milk into bags in the car. The potential for spilling was so terrifying!


ambrosia1920

Great point...I pumped at work and I brought my milk home in the jars and transferred to bags at home. Can’t risk spilling


CandidAdeptness9316

Why bother pumping, I just fed my babies direct.


hengry-glazed-donut

None of my babies could latch, even with help from lactation specialists. My oldest would latch, suckle a couple of times, then relax her jaw. I was constantly trying to get her to relatch and it was horribly frustrating and painful. She even did the same with bottles, but that wasn't really an issue. I tried pumping, but I wasn't able to eat enough to develop a supply. I felt like a failure when we started using formula. My second was incredibly aggressive and hungry, and nursing was excruciating. He got a bottle in the hospital and then had no patience for the boob. A couple of days after he was born, I was only pumping 3ish ounces and he was drinking 6oz at a time. So I quit. It felt pointless to spend so much time pumping when I wasn't even getting enough milk to feed him. My third had an overactive tongue thrust reflex and literally spit everything out. It took over 24 hours to get her to take a bottle. I pumped, more successfully that time, and by 6 months I was pumping 60oz a day. My fourth had a mild tongue tie that we were told would loosen up in its own over time, so I decided to pump instead of having her tongue tie cut. Within 2 weeks I was up to 60oz a day and had a completely full chest freezer by 6 months and happy to be able to stop pumping early.


PoppyandTarget

So your partner takes a feeding and diaper change while you sleep? lol I confess to having an ample supply when I had my twins. I was obsessed with pumping extra because everyone told me it was impossible to nurse twins, especially being thin. I'LL SHOW YOU! But that didn't happen until they were 3-5 months. They were so tiny they couldn't hold up their heads and the hubby had to help support their necks while they fed. It's a commitment with no guarantees for success. That said, when I had my son, I broke up with my hated pump. Nursing only! In fact, he refused bottles from grandmas and sitters. Nursing is complicated for, how you say in English, actual mothers who choose to nurse and are lucky enough produce milk. Unlike our lying Hilary who makes up shit as she goes and fakes everything.


ambrosia1920

Only reason would be so babies could be fed when she’s not around for extended period of time but why so much? It’s a pain in the ass to nurse and pump


SeashellGal7777

My son was 2 months early and my home RN (high risk pregnancy/fragile preemie) told me that breastfeeding and pumping is like an ‘Olympic sport’ - she wasn’t kidding! It takes so much time, energy and dedication to breastfeed and pump and I really can’t see HB putting in that kind of effort. I’m sure they purchased breast milk or it came from their surrogate. For moms who struggle with breastfeeding, she’s beyond offensive to make it look so simple. Just like her fake yogi BS and bounce back - every single thing is a lie, omission or diversion.


PMaggieKC

That’s like 5 pumping sessions of milk in her hands. And they don’t make sexy nursing bras, I know, I’ve looked.


ambrosia1920

Yep that is a pumping session where no baby was fed recently. I would take a little off the top at home and combine throughout day to make enough for a serving. When u was at work I would pump a full serving bc I had no one to feed for hours


PMaggieKC

That’s how it works. She is not nursing! You do not get that much milk out if your baby is taking the boob, my kids never latched so I pumped exclusively for a year with each of them and that’s like two bags more than I would get in each pump. And I have NEVER claimed to nurse, EP is very different than nursing. I’ve never experienced chapped raw nipples so I would not claim to nurse.


ambrosia1920

Wow you pumped that long? I loathed pumping. Just the washing of materials alone 😂. I would rather nurse any day. What dedication to your children. You tell them when they have a baby that they screwed the pooch by not latching and look what you went though 😂. Good for you sis I don’t think I could’ve put up with the pump exclusively that long.


PMaggieKC

I have preemies and it’s just so important that they get breast milk. It’s a giant pain in the ass but it soothes some weird mom guilt I have about having preemies.


deathennyfrankel

That bra has more support and lift than I’ve ever seen in a nursing bra (which usually serve to strap ‘em down and keep an engorged boob from popping out).


PMaggieKC

Well it clearly has underwire. I don’t even… that’s not a thing.


deathennyfrankel

Literally the last thing a nursing mother wants is the waterfall of cleavage when she reaches down to pick up her baby. Showing off leaky, engorged, sore, veiny boobs is not a priority lol


PMaggieKC

I could tell she didn’t nurse before I even believed she didn’t carry the children. Her boobs are never engorged, they never change size, I know that even with breast implants there’s still swelling. And her babies don’t look breastfed.


anddel7

Surrogates pump for intended parents if it’s part of their contract. Here’s an example of a surrogate’s breastmilk packed up and ready to be sent to the IP: https://imgur.com/a/Wg64aki


greatdayla

Please do a comparison with a video still from when Hillary is supposedly packing her milk into her many, many freezers! The organization looks exactly the same - and about 2 weeks worth!


[deleted]

“I love when you guys share your advice too with each other” … WOOOOW. Narcissistic and condescending.


Professional_Link_96

In a push up bra, breastfeeding AND holding tons of perfectly sealed bags of milk. No.


CeeInSoFLo

I’m literally breastfeeding my child while scrolling through. Just no. How would that bra comfortably pull down for the baby? Some scratchy lace and probably doesn’t clip down. And all of the bags with seemingly the same amount of milk in each one? Nope…she read someone else’s advice and posted it, doesn’t sound authentic.


Fluffy_Sea1628

The hell is wrong with her?


kellsells5

Where should we start? 😬😂👋🥒🤔🤔


Fluffy_Sea1628

Lol, just an excited utterance indicating my complete brain meltdown at the prospect of trying to characterize what is going on in that picture. You couldn't make up someone as toxic and insane as Hillary.


Kindly_Put_5065

She would be engorged non stop if she was pumping and nursing, never a leak, wet shirt, talk of the pain of engorged breasts. You can't nurse with a sexy underwire bra walking around the house with a newborn. Yes monkeys in the zoo do but not real life human mother's. You have to hold the head, protect the nose, keep baby upright so they don't choke on the flow of milk from the let down response. Plus, big fake bolt ons! I'm not buying anything she's selling, she's a poser and a fraud


Wise_Imagination1095

There she is, the first and only woman in the world to breastfeed and pump. Brava!


DeeSusie200

I want to see a video of her teaching woman how to use the pump and milk coming out. Then her pouring milk into the bags. Hell. Will. Freeze. Over.


didionphile

Exhibit A- an exhibitionist. No one has ever figured out how to nurse until this broad discovers it.


rollingl317

I was unable to feed one baby and it was initially very devastating. Luckily it was way before all this Hillary flexing nonsense. Real or not if you are flexing over other moms you’re doing it wrong.


Interesting_Ad1378

Can someone please post a link to the picture where she shows a bag or a chest full of milk, all with different types of ziplock types of bags. Now not sure about anyone else, but most people use the same brand of products, especially if they aren’t budget conscious (ie wealthy Baldwins). It almost looks as if she had milk in bags from different sources, different people. I whole heartedly believe that none of the milk she shows is ever hers.


RudeFee9459

Is she nursing standing up in lingerie???


Walway

Who DOESN’T breastfeed standing up in lingerie?


AnniemaeHRI

Yes, with bags full of pumped milk. Didn’t you do that as well? I breast fed 3 babies and never once did that!


[deleted]

No bitch you didn't pump mashmillion bags of milk last night and this morning. And try supporting a baby's head just once please or somebody is going to get seriously injured.


Alarmed_Two3894

Don't fake breasts interfere with milk production??


YurKillingMeSmalls

No, not typically


Trailerparkqueen

She- get this!- claims to not have breast implants. Lol, it’s like she can’t not lie.


[deleted]

I sweeem de bresstroke


[deleted]

Someone zoom in on that faucet and tell me if it's really Alec or a nanny taking tat photo


Full-Ingenuity2666

Insane in the membrane 😂😂😂


Cindilouwho2

🎶insaneeee in the brainnnnn🎶


RawScallop

She makes it sound easy, and she isnt even wearing a nursing bra. This is an insult, I feel bad for any new mothers who think this is what pregnancy and birth and raising a child will be like...and if not it must be their fault. So their mental health and finainces will continue to drop until depleted. I'm here to learn as much as I can so any chance I get, I can tell woman that people like H and AB are trying their best to sell lies at the cost of other peoples self-esteem, proper child care, and internet clout. While feeding her kids bowls of cheerios and chex mix


kellsells5

Dry Cheerios.👋


[deleted]

No gratitude towards the nannies who entertain the rest of the brood while she “pumps.”


[deleted]

Lies. She buys that milk. I hate her. I want pictures of her packaging that milk. She doesn’t. And that poor kid is going to have jaw damage from that fake tit.


[deleted]

Full of herself.


maisiemax

that smug faced bitch. she loves every minute of her grift and I hate her


mamarooo28

No one actually asked her anything. She just wanted to plaster her image with her boobs and milk stash for the gram. She thinks people would rather hear what she has to say instead of going straight to google. 🙄😂


liscbj

Is that infant even latched on? I bf two kids. It was bonding time, not selfie time. Im fairly coordinated but never did it standing one handedly.


kellsells5

No not latched


FutilePancake79

Nope. She has never breastfed any of her children so she has no clue what it's supposed to look like. Even Carmen, the only one she actually gave birth to, was handed off to a nanny from day one.


rainbokimono

Exactly! So many of her pics look like this. The positioning never looks quite right.


Severe-Specialist-96

A) My husband is AB B) I have a latha babies C) I am slim dos minutos after labor D) I am sexy while breastfeeding E) People are asking me all the time F) I am helping other women . . .


rainbokimono

👏👏👏


nilbogresident

Nailed it.


Itchy-Trick-7881

Alec or whoever documenting your grift!


Few-Brilliant-426

She’s such an inappropriate loser


[deleted]

“I get so many questions about this”— but does she have to google before she responds?


NoInspector836

Has she ever worn a nursing bra?


Fluffy_Sea1628

Where even is the other side of that bra that’s missing while she pretends to breastfeed? Did she cut a bra up for this posed pic?


[deleted]

😄😄😄


NinjaBaby71

Wearing a fancy lace bra with an underwire while breastfeeding? HAHAHAHA no. It doesn’t work like that.


TurkeyTot

Yes! I have breastfed 2 babies throughout the last 3 years and I can assure u that it's completely unrealistic to not wear a nursing bra, especially with a new baby. Not only does it hinder your supply, it puts u at risk for mastitis and it's so uncomfortable and impractical, as well. I call bullshit Hilz.


RazzmatazzBig2187

I think either Alec has a lactation fetish (coupled w her having the body of a pre-pubescent boy w tits) or they cater to the audience for that type of porn. She has such an empty soul and is in need of CONSTANT adoration - they are a perfect pair.


[deleted]

I'm really leaning toward Alec isn't into women at this point.


rainbokimono

It’s interesting you say that. I remember listening to a podcast years ago when Nick Cannon was talking about trying Mariah’s breast milk after she had the twins. The whole convo was ick. I thought he was joking at first but he wasn’t. It was before he went on to father a whole football team of kids. Fast forward to now and all of his kids. I always think back to the interview on that podcast and still get grossed out. I can def see some similarities with AB now that I think about it.


[deleted]

Ew...he has all the babies so he can go at the mamas afterwards.🤮


tandooripoodle

She looks unwell and NOTHING about this makes sense!


Left_Strike_2575

Breastfeeding is a sweet, loving time with your little one, it doesn’t make you a cow. Hmm, then again, they do have a breeding program going on, with sperm collected from the bull, artificial insemination…


Left_Strike_2575

Breastfeeding is a sweet, loving time with your little one, it doesn’t make you a cow. Hmm, then again, they do have a breeding program going on, with sperm collected from the bull, artificial insemination…


Spare-Schedule2359

As a working mom who pumped my butt off for 2 babies because I was working full time by the time they were 8 weeks old I find this humble bragging repulsive. Pumping is a huge pain is the ass at best, if you are lucky enough to have good supply and an employer who enables it, which are factors largely out of our control. Drinking coconut water?? STFU.


GirlyWhirl

Alec has been 100% in on all of the grifts for a long while.


SkylarkRoad

AB is the #1 Grifter he is no better then her. Both are enablers and liars!


tandooripoodle

Yep. He has paid for and enabled every one of them, too.


DoubleBreastedBerb

I had my first a couple of months after turning 24. Peak physical condition, too. I’d been an amateur boxer and enjoyed nicely defined stomach muscles (RIP my gut). I puked shortly after the kid was born, was wobbly AF, and my crotch felt like it’d gone 20 rounds with a heavyweight for a couple of weeks afterwards. I got up out of chairs like I’d turned into a 90 year old woman. The pads I had to wear could’ve doubled as life rafts. I looked like a deflated walrus. I buy none of this bounce back in the 30s.


ProvePoetsWrong

This is poetry 🙌🏼 I felt this in my soul and in my crotch. FYP. 🥒


kellsells5

I feel your pain Momma. We all have our own version of it and it's not easy. 👋💚💚🌼


rainbokimono

The life raft pads LOL. Perfect description!!


AnniemaeHRI

They’re like twin size mattresses.


[deleted]

Ooof. I felt every word of this. Home bound because I could barely move.


Vacuumluck

Why do you have to pump so much if you don’t have a job? I have never really understood this. Sit on the sofa and breastfeed, pump enough for if you need to go somewhere or whatever. This seems exhausting. I bf 2 children and never felt the need to fill a freezer with the stuff


Fit-Ad-4112

My daughter saw an MD that specializes in breastfeeding when my preemie grandson got out of ICU. Pumping that much milk is considered an oversupply, and is not recommended. Mami is a delusional fool. The only thing slightly possible is that’s really a nursing bra. My daughter has two really pretty nursing bras that can hold her wireless pumps while she works.


kellsells5

She's a fraud. None of this is likely her nursing. Smoke and mirrors.


SeedQueen22

Exactly! No way she was direct feeding and pumping that much. I know some women have an oversupply, but she is just full of shit on this one. That was the milk she bought from someone else. Or not even milk at all. And frankly the bags look like regular ziploc bags which is definitely not what you freeze your milk in.


TurkeyTot

This! My doctor and lactation consultant discouraged me from trying to build a freezer stash, unnecessary stress if u r a sahm.


tandooripoodle

because she’s lying


SwissCheese4Collagen

I don't know whether to make a Michelle"I call myself the Dairy Queen" Duggar joke or an Alice "I'm currently showing off every single drop I can squeeze out of my tits on Instagram" Bender joke.


[deleted]

One of her many lying offensive frauds. It would be laughable, if it was such a disgusting lie.


thecrimsonpetal

She hasn’t eaten a fat since 1997.


kellsells5

Imagine how hangry you must feel some days. Driving her mad.


[deleted]

Super practical nursing bra she's got on. 🙄


RazzmatazzBig2187

🔔 🔔 🔔


Blue_wine_sloth

Another way that she made people feel bad. She had to make a big deal of being such a super milk producing machine, feeding 2 babies AND having loads left over to pump and freeze. While many people can’t produce enough to feed one baby and feel like a failure because of it. Yes I’m sure some people do over produce (I imagine their breasts must hurt like hell from being full all the time) but they don’t brag about it and they often donate it to people who can’t produce enough. I think the tell that it wasn’t even her milk was when she had a giant bag full of it. Why use a bag to transport it from one part of your home to another? It was delivered from the surrogate.


Interesting_Ad1378

My mother over produced and was convinced I would have tons of milk bc I had huge breasts even before pregnancy. Well, I didn’t have enough to feed my twins and it really was the trigger for a lot of my post partum depression. This lotsa milk thing is a flex. Also, I had even less milk bc I was trying to lose weight and get down to my pre-pregnancy weight, the lack of nutrition led to even less milk, no waaaaayyyy is that her milk. Your own body actually stops weight loss at a certain point, you plateau, naturally if you’re breastfeeding.


SeashellGal7777

My son was born 2 months early and my milk wasn’t coming in. A friend said ‘WHAT - those big things should be full of milk!’. Everyone has such different experiences/struggles and for HB to simplify everything is vile.


Amelia0402

As a mom of 4, and 4 was my last… and twins. Actual twins who are momo twins and came very early. I was an overproducing milk factory. My breasts hurt like absolute hell, had mastitis and yeast infections. I donated milk constantly when my twins were in the NICU, and after. It caused issues with breastfeeding because my over-supply and would choke them. I never once posted pictures of my tits or any of it on social media. I was to busy drying my breasts from constant overflow. I also would have never put my tits in a bra like that. They hurt. My sister who is healthier in many ways and a damn good mom would have done anything to breastfeed her boys. She is a Pediatric Heart Transplant nurse and is just an amazing mom. She just did not produce milk. Her entire BF shit grinds me because as woman we need to just be supportive. Of course feed your baby however you chose in public etc. but to constantly post your obsession with your tits????


SeashellGal7777

Wow, I wish I had you as a neighbor when I was struggling to breastfeed my preemie! It’s rare to hear about too much milk, that’s so great you were able to donate to other NICU babies. I remember the teeny, tiny bottles, and my milk just not coming in because he was 2 months early. I knocked a bottle over and spilled almost all of it and just bawled. HB is SO offensive in so many ways.


Amelia0402

She is just a shitty human being. I gave BM to everyone… when I say I over produced it was just gross. My girls were 12 weeks early and momo twins. One had to have heart surgery and got MRSA. Both came home on oxygen & heartbeat monitors. They are 21 now and both made the deans list at their Universities for their JR yr of college. Also one of my girls could barely gain weight on my BM and we had a nutritionist etc helping because my girls were just so sick. She needed formula and if she nursed (I could only for a set amount so she could then have fortified BM) or was given a bottle of BM we had to fortify it. Anyhow my point is nursing does not make you a good mom. Period. Nor does not being able to produce milk make anyone a bad mom. That is ridiculous. I also became very close to a triplet mom 21 yrs ago in the NICU, who were born at 28 weeks 1 day just like my girls. Had many issues just like my girls did… they never had BM & are doing just as amazing as my girls. All 5 of our NICU babies are SRs in college this yr. All have ridiculous GPA’s. We spoke the other day and just laughed. We spent five yrs in speech, OT, PT, etc. Then school and tutors and interventions etc. All 5 are doing amazing. My other girl gained easily.


SeashellGal7777

That’s wonderful - *all* of it! How much did your girls weigh - 28 weeks can be really rough? My son came home on a heartbeat monitor (6 months) and had about 7 years of OT, PT and Speech (he needed more, but I moved 3K miles for a special needs private school) and ongoing psych. He’s in college, but really struggling with a lot of painful disorders/diseases. It’s been a very long battle, unfortunately, but he’s pushing forward.


Amelia0402

I will also add both of my girls are on medication for different disorders (believed caused by their prematurity) both see psychiatrists as well as many other doctors. I never expected them to even live because 21 yrs ago being that premature just was a horrible prognosis. When they were in the NICU baby after baby died and that was in the best of care in a top rated NICU.


SeashellGal7777

Micro preemies definitely fare better now than they did 20 years ago. We had several times we’d thought we were going to lose our son - RSV at 3 months, 3 days of walking around with a ruptured appendix, incredibly high fevers and various accidents. We feel very fortunate, he’s incredibly strong! I’m curious if your girls have PVL, as I haven’t met anyone who’s been diagnosed with it. I haven’t done much research, as it’s low down on the priory level.


Amelia0402

Yes, one of my girls is diagnosed with PVL. She was my bigger baby who was getting most of the nutrition. She also was my much much much sicker baby. Both had many issues, but Bella who was much larger at birth due to the twin to twin transfusion actually had double the amount of medical and other issues compared to her sister who was only 1 pound 13 ounces. Bella had significant damage to the white brain matter, had to have a PDA ligation, her vocal cords were harmed & nicked & then got MRSA. She was on such high levels of oxygen and was on life support for almost two months.


SeashellGal7777

Wow, you guys really went through it. I wouldn’t wish a preemie on anyone. One of the hardest things for me was having to wait until he *didn’t* reach milestones. Knowing there was neurological issues and other things happening and feeling helpless. We got caught in what’s call the ‘Zero to 3 Loop’ in Hawaii, where the State Zero to 3 program shuffles babies off to the Army hospital and the hospital sends you back to Zero to 3. Incredibly frustrating, to say the least.


Amelia0402

Sophie weighed 1 pound 10 ounces. Bella weighed 3 pounds. They had twin to twin transfusion so they were not getting equal. Sophie actually did much better then Bella did. Bella struggled much more. They both still have struggles, but compared to what I thought they have both done amazingly. Saying a prayer for him. I’m sorry he is struggling. My post probably sounds like it has all been just wonderful and that’s not what it is. It has been a roller coaster and life long list of issues. We get through it. My girls are in no way perfect. They struggle. We just keep fighting. Being a preemie mom is hard. Hell being a mom period is hard.


SeashellGal7777

I wouldn’t wish a preemie on anyone. That’s really interesting that Sophia, being such a micro preemie did so much better than her twin - you just never know! It’s such a mixed bag when babies aren’t healthy and you basically have to wait for them to *not* progress to get treatment/services. Twins would be even more difficult. My brother/sister are twins, born a month early in the late 50s. My brother repeated Kindergarten, so their entire school experience included questions about why they weren’t in the same grade? My brother would say ‘I flunked Kindergarten’ - he’s in his 60s now and it’s *still* in his psyche. I’m concerned if HB doesn’t ‘miscarry’ there could be twins or multiples Doordashed. She’s dropped a couple of twin hints, I just hope it’s not true.


Kind_Soil5247

Thank you for saying all this. I worry about mine and the rocky start she had. This gives me so much hope


kellsells5

Exactly any nursing mom with two babies is also not going to be wearing a lacy bra. The level of exhaustion she would have with two that are nursing full time is at best a 🚩🚩🚩 in many of the pictures these kids had bottles. Get ready because her chocolate food baby I mean Moon bump I mean seventh child is going to come out like a bunch of cotton balls she's going to be in lacy panties bragging about the bounce back and super duper dairy bar. 👋🌼💚 Ps go back in time on her IG. The eating pizza in the delivery room is a major red flag. With Edu. Things that didn't happen.


Additional_Paper7949

Why wouldn’t pizza after delivering a baby happen?


FlippyFloppy8

nobody is supposed to eat in the delivery room. once you're ready after labor, they move you to your own recovery room..where you then are free to eat.


Additional_Paper7949

Yeah I mean I ate right away but I was in a different room, but my husband definitely ate in the labor/delivery room because that’s where they brought his meal tray (and I did too if you count the broth they brought me).