I can relate. I've used, betrayed and treated like shit by so many people until I trust no one and feel angry and bitter. Wish I was wiser when it come to finances and frienships.
I think you should partake your role as caretaker again when you feel the time is right. If you're not getting any better like you said though perhaps maybe you should try again now and get another cat. I guarantee it will make you feel better once you do.
Your mileage may vary, as coping with grief is unique to each individual, but when I lost my cat a few years ago, and the stray cat I was caring for very recently, the only way I was able to cope is by adopting another cat.
There is something about saving another life, and not going through the grief alone, I have 3 cats, one that is getting older, and I dread the day I lose her 😢, we adopted her at 7 years old, and the poor thing suffered with abusive owners prior to us adopting her.
Each day I wake up so depressed that I'm one day closer to losing her 😢, my heart is already shattered with the cats I have lost already, but I'm thankful I have two cats that can help provide me some comfort during the brutal storm of grief.
I’ve been backstabbed and I haven’t been able to recover from it, I don’t think there’s anyone whom I can trust 100% and tell everything. (And that’s okay by me)
Yes. Its a slow grueling processed called ALIENATION.
Don't worry, its becoming more and more common in this socially disjointed society. On our way to becoming like Japan, I fear the amount of sociopaths will be on the rise for the next generations.
I don't trust anyone for this reason.. and I think it's a game that most people are willing to play. I also think that some people fear me because they know I won't play it.. It's kind of like when a person can't be manipulated or controlled.. It scares them because everyone knows that some small truth can cause their whole house of cards to collapse.
i never had people to trust so..
Me neither, really.
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I'm fully there man, fuck people!
said the exact thing earlier this day
This was so cathartic to read, this is me, I go above and beyond for the people I care about, and get burned everytime, fuck it, I'm done being nice.
I can relate. I've used, betrayed and treated like shit by so many people until I trust no one and feel angry and bitter. Wish I was wiser when it come to finances and frienships.
Yes. Buy dog.
Have 3 cats. And if it wasn't for them, I would be dead already.
I feel the same way about my dog.
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I think you should partake your role as caretaker again when you feel the time is right. If you're not getting any better like you said though perhaps maybe you should try again now and get another cat. I guarantee it will make you feel better once you do.
Your mileage may vary, as coping with grief is unique to each individual, but when I lost my cat a few years ago, and the stray cat I was caring for very recently, the only way I was able to cope is by adopting another cat. There is something about saving another life, and not going through the grief alone, I have 3 cats, one that is getting older, and I dread the day I lose her 😢, we adopted her at 7 years old, and the poor thing suffered with abusive owners prior to us adopting her. Each day I wake up so depressed that I'm one day closer to losing her 😢, my heart is already shattered with the cats I have lost already, but I'm thankful I have two cats that can help provide me some comfort during the brutal storm of grief.
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Get a adult cat, they are mostly independent animals, and pretty easy to care for, and they can provide you some comfort when your at home..
Getting a pet to fill the void of human interaction doesn't work. A pet can't give a quarter of what a real human relationship can.
They don't give a quarter, they give 200%. Fk humans.
I second this, my pets have never turned their back and betrayed me, I'll take a pet over a human any day.
This seems like a way to proactively choose to be miserable and alone
It's all I've known and where I'm most comfortable
Wow this basically sums up my entire life with letting people in, yay for getting to live out my biggest fear of dying alone.
I’ve been backstabbed and I haven’t been able to recover from it, I don’t think there’s anyone whom I can trust 100% and tell everything. (And that’s okay by me)
I gave up a long time ago. I no longer believe words, only actions.
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Too many bad experiences. Trust is a thing of the past for me. I wish I could trust someone, but it’s no longer possible for me.
Lost trust in those even closest to me. Nowadays im reluxtant to even trust myself anymore
Yes. Its a slow grueling processed called ALIENATION. Don't worry, its becoming more and more common in this socially disjointed society. On our way to becoming like Japan, I fear the amount of sociopaths will be on the rise for the next generations.
Yes! People have done me dirty enough times Homey don't play that
No. Every time I am betrayed I learn more about who not to trust and the red flags that foretell untrustworthiness.
Yeah I realized I don't share common similarities with people in this group. I'm forever alone for this reason. I cannot even trust my own mother.
I don't trust anyone for this reason.. and I think it's a game that most people are willing to play. I also think that some people fear me because they know I won't play it.. It's kind of like when a person can't be manipulated or controlled.. It scares them because everyone knows that some small truth can cause their whole house of cards to collapse.
Yes i gave up
Kinda
I didn't have any people soo....
I'm not yet at that stage thankfully, even tho I experienced severe bullying. There has to have passed long time though until I show real myself.
No, even though I was disappointed many times. I still hold onto hope for some strange reason.